Q&A with Momnesia author Lori Verni-Fogarsi and a giveaway on Mothers Day.

Lori Verni-Fogarsi is the author of the hot new novel, “Momnesia.” She has been a freelance writer, columnist, journalist, and seminar speaker for 15+ years, and has authored one nonfiction book, “Everything You Need to Know About House Training Puppies and Adult  Dogs,” which has been widely acclaimed in its genre. Lori is a happily married mom of two, step mom of two more, and has two cats, both rotten. She invites you to learn more at www.LoriTheAuthor.comand join her on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/LoriTheAuthor.

Lori will be giving one lucky winner her wonderfully insightful novel, Momnesia.

1. Of all the books you’ve read, which one would you consider as the one that sparked your interest to write?
I don’t know if I can really say there’s one particular book that sparked my interest to write. I’ve always loved reading and I think my interest in writing has been more influenced by my own desire to share information or perspectives. For example, with “Everything You Need to Know About House Training Puppies and Adult Dogs,” I felt the information was important and wanted to be able to help more people with their dogs. With “Momnesia,” it was the desire to share the perspective that moms are people too, and that we can be great moms who also maintain our own interests and have our own needs met at the same time. As a novelist, there’s also the simple aspect of entertainment value: I enjoy escaping into “some other person’s world” when I read, and I hope my readers do too!
2. What are the stumbling blocks you have encountered as a writer and how did/do you overcome them?

As a writer I work from home and it would be very easy to get busy with a million other things and never get around to writing. Things like lunches with girlfriends, cleaning, chores, volunteering at school and surfing the Net could easily take over if I let them. Instead, I try to use a 50/50 method: I use half my day to get writing and work-related things done, and the other half is dedicated to my other responsibilities and interests. Also, when I’m writing, I keep all of the other things on my computer closed so that I’m not tempted to check e-mail, Facebook, or the many other distractions that could come along!

3. If you were given an opportunity to collaborate with another author, who would that be?

There are many, many authors whose work I enjoy and respect immensely, but if I had to choose just one, it would be Harlan Coben, who writes mystery/thrillers. While his genre is completely different than mine, I’m in awe of his skill in moving his stories forward–keeping every word, paragraph and page compelling–without the story becoming confusing or farfetched.

4. How do you balance writing and your family life being especially having 4 teenagers in your home?

I try to be “all in” on whatever I’m doing. So, if it’s the evening or weekend and I’m doing things with my kids, I try to put writing out of my mind and not worry about what I’m not getting done. Likewise, when I’m writing, I try to focus entirely on writing and remind myself not to feel guilty about spending time on my work because I do invest a lot of time and effort into my family at other times. I also try to apply this when I spend time with my husband, and even when I’m doing something for myself, like getting my nails done, which is the most difficult of all!

5. For Mother’s Day. What is that 1 advice that you as a mother would like pass on to your children?
Always be yourself and don’t worry about what other people think or want you to do. When push comes to shove, you know what’s right or wrong for you, you have only yourself to “live with,” and it’s impossible to be happy if you spend your life trying to satisfy everyone in the world.
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Book Review Of Momnesia by Lori Verni-Fogarsi

Once in a while a book speaks about the realities of being a woman, a wife, a mother, a friend and all the challenges that come with it especially when being a mother becomes such a priority that a woman’s individuality prior to being a parent dissolves in the process. This is exactly what happened and how she strived to be a better person. Momnesia is a novel about rediscovering one’s self.

Lori Verni-Forgarsi’s Momnesia is easy to identify with, it speaks directly to the reader and has the right amounts of wittiness and humor.  Imagine this, even their marriage councelor gave his sincere assestment regarding her predicament which made me laugh.  I love the fact that one of my favorite authors, Jane Porter and a scene in her novel, Flirting with Fourty was quoted.  Momnesia is a look at what life is after the “happily ever after” or what if it truly is “not so happy after” especially with kids involved and on top of that having a ‘cat-faced’ husband. The characters are well developed and the lead is such a strong woman. I found the story to be unpretentious.  Halfway through the book, I realized that I did not know the name of the lead character and at the very end  realized why, I admire the author’s writing style and the fact that the book told me that Momnesia could be anyone - you, me or someone close.  I am looking forward to Lori’s next novel, Gramnesia.  This is a recommended read, not only for Mother’s Day but any day. Momnesia would be a good for a book club, it would be a fun way to discuss kids, friendship, husbands, sex-life or just life in general.

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Who would bring a baby to the movies … we did.

Since the much awaited arrival of our bundle boy blessing came, one thing that we love doing as a couple has taken a back seat which is watching movies. Well, who brings babies to a movie theater anyway?

May 4 came which meant that the Avengers was released here in the U.S. and after several days of seeing how the movie broke all box office records, rotten tomatoes even gave it a 92%, all other reviews were high which meant that the movie was not only visually stunning but it also had a good story line. I guess when you read this post, you most likely have seen Marvel’s The Avengers movie and would agree that Joss Whedon did an awesome job with these Marvel comic book heroes.

I am also happy to blog (and can you believe) that my husband and I were able to take our son to see The Avengers. Yes, at our local movie theater (Lincoln Square Cinemas) there is a special day called the Parents movie day where you can roll in your strollers with infants on board and enjoy the movie with other parents such as us. What does this mean? It means if for example a baby cries, there is no judgment, everyone still goes on in watching the movie. No one will look at you indifferently – no judgment.  They even bring the consession to the seats.  What’s even better is that the lights are turned up a bit and music turned down a bit since there are infants. This is a wonderful service that Lincoln Cinemas provides. I am thankful that we were able to watch The Avengers, I do want to see it again (it was that good). This was our son’s first movie and it was amazing!

Lincoln Square Cinemas

 

Book Review of I’ve Got Your Number by Sophie Kinsella

Of course each one of us can share an incident when we misplaced an item. In I’ve Got Your Number, Poppy Wyatt misplaces something much bigger - her engagement ring which is a family heirloom. In the chaos and after a fire alarm commotion, her cell phone that is her only means to continuously ask about an update on her ring also got stolen. Amidst her her shock and confusion she spots a perfectly good phone and as a bonus it even had an upbeat ring tone.  So Poppy did what she thought best which is to claim the phone and send everyone her latest contact information that is her new means of communication. The owner of the phone is  Sam’s PA who quit her job on the spot. To add to the mix of things,  Sam, the actual keeper of the corportate phone that Poppy claimed was not into the idea of letting Poppy temporarily own it, much more allow her to be the middle person for his email. Alas a compromise was met, they would share the phone until Poppy’s ring was found -  nothing bad could happen with that kind of set-up, right? Well…

Poppy is a dynamic character while Sam who at first seems all business and does not care about anyone as it is evident in his being very direct, he is also smart and successful, eventually as we get to know him, I discovered that Sam has a good heart, together, they made the novel  fun and light. The writing flowed quickly and was an easy read.  What  pulled me into the story was Kinsella’s humorous approach, the  unpredictablility of the novel made it even more interesting.  Most of the scenes made me laugh like in the beginning when Poppy needed to convince Sam that she will take good care of his company phone, to bid time until Sam reaches his Japanese clients Poppy dug into her inner diva and sang to them at the hotel lobby. Another one is during the scrabble scene where Poppy was playing with family of geniuses and the best word she could come up with is P-I-G that is until Sam helped and even her Z’s where used!..Again, these are just 2 situations, there are truly a lot that made me laugh. To me though the end seemed more like a Hollywood ending which I did not find as interesting. I’ve Got Your Number is another one of Sophie Kinsella’s entertaining novels that I would recomend especially if you are in search of an easy read chic lit novel for a weekend.

2012 Dynamic Story Writing Contest

Have you ever read a book and when you were done wished that you could have written the book yourself? Well, here is your chance to be part of a fun and creative story writing contest …

How to Win:

1. Your story must be connected with the first few paragrahs as this is a progressive story.
2. Please limit per entry to 3-5 sentences but you can enter as many times as you want to.
3. Make sure to include your email address per entry.
4. Please repost in facebook, twitter, your blog or website and say where you posted it.
5. Check out the most Recent Recommended Reads by our awesome authors.
Have fun writing =)
Contest ends on April 14 at 10pm PST.

It is such a wonderful honor to have 7 gifted writers to begin our story this year and in alphabetical order (by first name ), they are.

1. Allison Winn Scotch
2. Irene Zutell
3. Kalayna Price
4. Laura Vosika
5. Lisa Becker
6. Samantha March
7. Sarah Pekkanen

And here is our story …

Caitlin rolled down the car window and surveyed the landscape. Desert. Emptyness. Arid, cracking ground that wasn’t fit for anything other than a scorpion. Maybe a rattler too. Tumbleweeds blew up on the horizon; cactus shadows stood at odd angles, jarring and pointed from the overhead sun. Crap, she thought. Just crap. Of course I’d be the one sent out here on a ridiculous wild-goose chase. Of course, Willis sent me. He’s never liked me, never thought I was halfway decent at sniffing out a trail. Caitlin sighed, squinted up toward the sun, and the creaked open the truck door. Let’s do this, she thought. Let’s prove that bastard Willis wrong. She took the long step down, slamming the door behind her and set off.

She’d only been walking for a few minutes when it started happening. Not now– please not now, she silently prayed, struggling to remind herself that it was just an illusion. At least that’s what the doctors had told her when they couldn’t come up an explanation. “Post traumatic stress,” they said as if she’d just returned from a war zone. Her ex had put it more bluntly, “Caitlin, you’ve lost your mind.” Maybe he was right, but she can’t go crazy in the desert. Alone. People die out here all the time, as she and Willis
know too well. Caitlin took a deep breath. Don’t get distracted because that’s when rattlers bite, scorpions sting and mountain lions come out of hiding to taste your fear.

Caitlin closed her eyes, counted to five, and opened them again. The man was still there, sitting on a rock that hadn’t been there before he’d appeared. Golden cuffs encircled his wrist–wrists that were attached to very well muscled arms and a bare chest that glimmered in the intense mid-day sun. Hey, if I’m going to see imaginary men, they might as well be hot as hell. Except she didn’t want to see him. And she knew better than to talk to him. She needed to be alert to danger and concentrate on finding any trace of her quarry. She had to prove to Willis that what had happened hadn’t changed her, that she was still up to the job, that she wasn’t crazy. She needed to prove it to herself too. But the man still sat there, watching her. Waiting.

She tried to ignore him–he wasn’t real after all–and turned her attention to the job at hand.  The man she was tracking would need shelter and water, and there were only so many places to find those in this landscape.  He couldn’t go far.  She squinted up at the blazing sun, checked the compass on her watch, and began walking again.  “He didn’t go that way.” She stopped at the sound of the deep voice, before turning slowly.  They’d never spoken to her before, these illusions.

“Come here often?” he said.  Really?  Even in an illusion she couldn’t do better than a cheesy pick up line?  What was next: Is it hot out here or is it just me? Clearly she was losing her mind and it was Willis’ fault. “What you talking about Willis?” she remembers saying, as he handed her the dossier and said she would need to leave immediately. She never liked or trusted him and he never appreciated her skills, humor or knowledge of 70′s TV sitcoms.  But seriously, what was Willis talking about? It wasn’t her turn in the rotation.  With Carter out sick, Davis should have been next.  Nevertheless, Willis gave her this assignment. He knew what this heat could do to her mind, never mind to her hair. Despite the hallucinations, she was seeing things clearly now.  He was trying to break her…prove she was unstable.  He was protecting himself.  She knew too much. And with that, she had to determine her next move.

She ignored muscle man, her feet making determined stomps on the dirt as she trudged south. She wiped sweat from her brow. How long had she been out of the sweet escape of air conditioning in her car – ten minutes? It felt closer to an hour. “Ma’am, I’m telling ya – he didn’t go that way.” Caitlin froze once again at the baritone voice. It couldn’t be the hallucination. They never spoke. Was she getting even worse? Would Willis go this far to hope she had another breakdown on the job? Caitlin slowly turned on one heel, looking back at the man. He was standing now, walking towards her. Caitlin felt her heart start to race, and she slowly drew her right arm back, reaching for her weapon. “Don’t come any closer!” she commanded, mentally cheering herself for the shake that wasn’t in her voice.

The man stopped and cocked his head to the side. “You really don’t know what’s going on, do you?” he asked. She kept her eyes locked on his and didn’t answer, even though doubts began to tickle her mind. This area was deserted; you could walk for miles and never glimpse another person. So why did it seem like he’d known she’d be here – like he’d been waiting for her? “If you really want to find him, follow me.” He turned around and began walking again. Caitlin exhaled, removed her slippery fingers from her gun, and dried them on her shorts. She could feel the sun biting at the tender, pale skin exposed by the her v-neck t-shirt. She should have brought more water.  She took a few slow steps, then looked back, but the man was gone. She was surprised to feel a twinge of disappointment mingle with her relief.

The Prizes for 9 winners:

1. Grave Peril signed by Jim Butcher
2. Time of My Life by Allison Winn Scotch
3.  Pieces of Happily Ever After by Irene Zutell
4.  Grave Witch signed by Kalayna Price
5.  Blue Bells of Scotland by Laura Vosika
6.  Click: An Online Love Story by Lisa Becker (eBook)
7. Destined to Fail signed by Samantha March
8. A signed book of choice by Sarah Pekannen
9. A scrapbook containing the entire story of our contest (sample from last year will be posted in the fb page So Many Books, So Little Time, So Here’s Mine)

Let the creative writing commence….